It's time to dive into the mailbag once again.

Keep those emails coming, and if yours catches my eye, I'll answer it in an upcoming newsletter.

Send your success stories and your questions to AskLance[at]pickup101[dot]com

Now let's get into it...

QUESTION

Hey Lance,

If a girl loses attraction for a guy almost completely. can that attraction be raised up again within a short amount of time? is it possible for a girl who was once attracted to a guy and lost that attraction get those levels back up? and does have to be after like 4 months or something or can it just happen not too long after?

Josh. Thanks dude.

MY COMMENTS

Josh,

The short answer is yes it can happen that the flame of attraction gets lit twice.  But it's a long shot at best and a ton of work.

If attraction has been lost, your best bet is to chalk it up to experience, and move on.

Let see there must be only a couple BILLION women on this planet, so why try and do things the hard way (getting girl back) when you can just go meet a new one.

Listen, the single best thing you can do to get an ex-girlfriend attracted to you again, is for her to see you with a lot of other women.

And if she doesn't find you attractive then, do you care? Hell no, you've got all these other women in your life.

Doesn't that sound more fun that chasing a girl who doesn't want to be with you?

Go out and flirt, you'll forget about her quickly when you're around other women.


SUCCESS STORY

THANKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lance, Thanks a lot man. I asked that chick out yesterday, and hell yeah she said yes!
 
I'm taking her out partly on a date and also her birthday's right around the corner and even when I was younger I gave my girl a good time on her birthday. So I've got that covered.

Anyway thanks again!

-Tim S

P.S. As you can probably tell, I'm in a very good mood right now.


MY COMMENTS

Hey Tim,

That's awesome!  Glad to know I helped, and I want you to realize that YOU are the one that made it all happen.

I can give advice till I'm blue in the face, but it only works when a guy actually goes out and TAKES ACTION.

And it does feel good when you have the kind of women in your life that you want.  Not what you settle for.



QUESTION

Lance,

I can hang out and talk with women on an intellectual level all day, but when it comes to flirting with a girl, I become shy and don't know what to say. 

I am not really interested in routines or canned lines, but I understand that these may be a starting point.  I guess my question is, what is the best way to improve my confidence and attractiveness with women that is not sleazy or disrespectful?

... reading books, attending a workshop, or simply swallowing my pride and accepting that I won't be good at it at first?

Jacob, Carson City NV


MY COMMENTS

Jacob,

I understand about not wanting to use 'routines' or 'canned lines', because frankly that's not what Natural Game is all about.

Routines can be a problem because guys tend to focus so much on 'what to say', that can often lose touch with any sense of connection to a women.

Even worse, they can end up saying something that just doesn’t 'feel real' to a women.

If that happens she's going to feel like something is 'off' with you, and you will be labeled as just another creepy guy, regardless of how good your intentions were.

All because you were more focus on the routines then you were on the women.

So great, don't use routines right?

Not so fast...

Because if your like most guys I work with, you may find that while it's easy to keep a conversation moving smoothly with one of your buddies, keeping the chatter going with a super-hottie can be a LOT more challenging.

She is like

And yes, YOU are likely to be a bit nervous.

So what's the solution?

The answer is what I call the Conversational Thread.

Unlike Routines, which are only used by smarmy sales people and even smarmier 'PickUp Artists', conversational threads are used quite naturally by everyone who finds themselves.

The Conversational Threads come from your own life, and are just designed to keep conversations interesting, fun, and involved.

Frankly it is what you would NATURALLY do if you were having conversations with women over a period of several months and the same topics started to float to the surface of many of your conversations.

We're just dramatically ACCELERATING this natural process that most naturally charming people go through.

The truth is the ONLY reason you become shy when it comes to flirting is that you don't yet know how. 

And that's why you talk on a intellectual level with a woman, because it's SAFE.  No risk there, and likewise no attraction either.

Intellectual = BORING.  Like the song says "Girls just wanna have fun"

If you want women in your life, you can't be boring.

Now as for your question:

"what is the best way to improve my confidence and attractiveness with women that is not sleazy or disrespectful?"

Confidence is what attracts a woman.  And if you knew how to flirt with women, you would have the confidence to go talk to them with getting all intellectual and boring.

So how do you learn how to flirt and how to talk with women for hours in the fun and playful way that the enjoy so much?

The best place to start is with BANTER, which is the art of playful teasing and role playing.

You can learn one banter line at a time and then simply practice during your day with women you meet.

The next important element to add in is STORYTELLING.  Everyone loves a story, it's like it's hard wired into our brains.

The key is to be able to tell what I call 'ATTRACTION STORIES', and there is a formula that works every time to create a story like this.

We've got a method we call the Art of Attraction  Story Generator that up till now has only been taught in our workshops.

But I have been getting so many questions about how to have conversations, how to talk to women, how to flirt, how to use banter, and how to tell killer stories lately that I went and did something about it.

I taught a 3-day workshop that is designed to INSTANTLY boost your conversational flirting skills.

AND give you the skills to KEEP the conversation moving in a fun, natural, flirtatious way.

You'll even learn how to take the conversation deeper, ask her out for a date, and even learn how to interpret what SHE is saying back to you.

And because I spent literally ten YEARS developing the material, and three FULL DAYS delivering it, it contains EVERYTHING you need to know to get started right away, AND to progress to the level you want with women.

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You should also know that with our payment Plan, you have a full 30 days to try out the product Before you even make your first payment.

If this sounds right for you, but your just not sure, then go ahead an scoop up one of the last copies to enjoy one weekend night. 

If for some reason it doesn’t seem right, just send it back and I'll refund your investment in full.

I can't possible make it any easier for you to Enjoy conversations with women knowing That YOU are in control, and that they are hanging on your every word.

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Now, go flirt with some women!

Your Friend,

Lance Mason


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It's NOT cheap, but the you’re first payment is on me. That means YOU get to review the complete product for 30 Days before you even make a payment.

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