There is a former NY Times best selling book called Blink.  It's a great book, a definite 'must-read'.  Until you get a chance to check it out, here is the Mason Notes version...

The key idea of Blink, is that we humans make decisions almost immediately, whether we realize it or not.

It happens at a subconscious level, and happens in the 'blink of an eye'.

By the way, this isn't just conjecture.

The book backs this up with numerous studies, and even explains why this signifigance of these studies has been consistently over-looked by society

I think you can see where I'm going with this, and what it has to do with your success with women.

Women make a decision about you based on that all important first impression.  It happens too fast for any of us to notice, but it is a VERY real phenomenon.

It goes something like this:

She see's you.

...


Blink

...

And BOOM!

She's has an opinion of you.

The REALLY bad news, according to lots of studies in the book, is that we humans really aren't capable of overcoming this first impression, even though we fool ourselves into thinking we can.

Once a first imporession is set, we THINK we can look past it and see new aspects of a person without the 'overwhelming' influence of that first impression.... but we're WRONG.

Over and over again studies on topics as broad as racism to roulette show our first impressions really do sitck with us no matter how we convice ourselves otherwise.

For example, one study showed trained philharmonic orchestra professionals COULD NOT accurately judge the quality of someone's playing once they had SEEN that person - even if they had just seen that person for a minute.

Once they saw that person they subconsiously formed an opinion of that person AS A MUSICIAN - and that they were NOT able to accurately hear that person's playing as if that first impression had never been made.

That literally means once a woman gets a first impression of you she is literally INCAPABLE of seeing you outside of that 'filter' that was created by her first impression.

You simply can NOT 'turn back the clock' and fix a bad first impression.
 
I know that sounds harsh, but this is a human instinct that has been shown over and over again to be true, so I want to make sure you understand the full force of this phenonmenon.

Even if you read the book and study the phenomenon, overcoming your 'blindspot' created by your first impression takes constant consious effort that just isn't realistic in everyday life.

Besides, even if you COULD recover from a bad first impression, why in hell would you want to?

That's like having to overcome a 20 point deficit every time you come out for the 2nd half of the game.

Sure... MAYBE it can be done in certain circumstances.

But isn't it better to be 20 points ahead at half time?

I always thought so.

The truth is the OPPORTUNITY here is much greater then you may imagine.

After all, women (or any of us, for that matter) DO NOT understand how powerfull this 'filter' of the first impression is.

That means if you can consistently make a GREAT, (or even AMAZINGLY strong and confident), first impression, she is going to see EVERYTHING you do through that glowing first impression.

Thats right, EVEN if you 'slip up' for a bit and act like a COMPLETE DORK, she is interpreting that through this 'strong and confident' filter permanently set in her consiousness...

(Trust me, I've been there.  One time I literally spilled coffee on my date, stammered out an apology, and all she could talk about later that night was how smooth I was on the date... talk about the power of a good first impression!)

I guess you could say it's the closest thing men can have to cleavage.  Get this ONE THING right and they will overlook a lot of DUMB behavior on your part.

So how do you CREATE this strong and confident first impression?

Well, there are really TWO types of first impressions.

The ones you controll, as in when YOU are approaching HER and starting up a conversation.

(This ASSUMES, of course, that she hasn't already noticed you and formed a first impression of you.)

This is the dreaded cold-approach some guys fear, but the truth is it allows us an incredible amount of control over the first impression.

The REALLY GREAT news is that the 'harder' the situation seems (ie. she's busy, talking with friends, or looks just plain un-approachable) - The EASIER it is to nail an amazing frist impression when you shoe you can handel these simple obstacles that throw so many of the other guys off.

In fact, when you know how to approach correctly in ANY enviroment this whole game becomes incredibly easy - thanks to that 'halo effect' of the first impression.

So much so that some suggested I call my product that teaches all these approaching techniques Zero-Resistance Dating.

Not a bad name, but it seemed a bit cheezy for my taste - I went with "Fearless First Impressions" instead.

It's a video encyclopedia of every technique, style, and real-world method of approaching a women that has ever worked for me and my instructors.

Filmed in an 11 hour marathon session all in one day, I left no secrets out of this one.

     Every Proven Method For Approaching Women Since Humans Started Walking Upright

Even though this was one of our first products, I'm so proud of it that I going to make a special offer I've never made to get it into your hot hands.

From now until this Friday, I'm going to make a special 'Success Secrets' Version of Fearless First Impressions Available, and am going to throw in a bunch of killer bonuses.

Better hurry, this offer won't last long.

http://www.FearlessFirstImpressions.com/


Now go make some first impressions,

Your friend,

Lance Mason


P.S. - I almost forgot to mention how to deal with the OTHER types of first impressions - the ones you DON'T control. For example, she see's you walk in the room, gives a mental note of approval (or disapproval) BEFORE you go and approach her later.

For this you need a PERMANENT state of Physical Confidence that women can literally smell from across the room - and lot's of it. 

I cover this aspect of the first impression thoroughly in my Physical Confidence program.

Check it out at:

http://www.PhysicalConfidence.com/

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