I've put together a quick video showing you one of my favorite ways to start conversations with women.

I'll show you what it looks like, explain why I use it so often, and detailing the elements you need to make it work for you.

PickUp 101 Instructor Daniel Johnson also demonstrates one of his favorite ways to get sexy conversations that is actually quite different.

These examples are easy to use throughout the day because they can get great conversations started under almost any situation you'll encounter.

It's only about 10 minutes long, perfect for a quick break from work!

Click on the image to view the video and try it out the next time you see an attractive women.

Cheers,

Lance Mason

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In my years of teaching guys how to approach women, I've noticed that guys who won't approach generally fall into 2 categories.

1. Don't have a CLUE what to say or do
   
2. Have TOO MANY ideas on what to say and do

Now, the interesting thing is that NEITHER guy will approach, but for VERY different reasons.

You see, the first guy won't approach because he feels out of his COMFORT zone and will worry that he'll make a FOOL out of himself or that people will LAUGH or make fun of him.

I like to use the analogy that it would be like deciding you want to play guitar, and your first lesson is to go on stage at an open mike night before you have even learned to play a chord.

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There she is,

Hair well-styled, heels and skirt showing off her tanned, toned legs, and you could swear you see just a tiny glimpse of a smile on her lips.

So you start moving, and suddenly every cheesy opening line you've ever heard springs to mind.

"Can I buy you a drink?"

"Do you come here often?"

"Hey baby, you must be wearing moon pants, because your ass is out of this world."

Smooth, right? And I just bet you can't wait for me to tell you to head right out and use one of them.

That's the problem. You're a smart guy. You know better than to say just what every other guy says. You want to show her something, bring her some fun, and give her a chance to get to know the real you.

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This is the greatest and best pickup move I've ever heard, and I had to share it with you.

"Friday night at Gallery on the lower East Side, TV and movie star Zack Braff sent a friend over to tell a blonde friend of ours that she had a "hot bod."

Denied."

Wow. I'm not sure what's more sad, the fact that the best he could come up with was "hot bod," or having someone else deliver the lame line for you. I mean, seriously, you're a TV star! You'd think you'd have something better than the same kind of stuff kids pull in middle school.

Too bad he didn't have his buddy pass her a note saying "if someone liked you, would you like that someone?  Check Yes or No."

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You want to attract any hottie you see, and make a great, powerful, sexy first impression.

But how?

Attraction happens right away, or not at all.  First impressions matter most.

In our world-famous Art of Attraction workshop, we emphasize that the words used for an opener are not as important as the intent, the energy, and the commitment you bring to it.

But you do need words.

We have one absolute fall-back every time 100% effective opener. This is something that anyone can use, anytime, any skill level, any environment.

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Today I want to talk about the most CRITICAL time period when meeting a woman.

And when I say meeting a woman, we both understand that this is about a woman you find attractive, and want to get to know.

The time period I'm talking about is the first 60 seconds.  But, and this is important, the clock starts ticking BEFORE you even approach her!

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When was the last time you saw THAT girl?

You know who I mean...

The one that made your body go 'urk!' inside, but when it came down to approaching her...

You froze.

Maybe it was the fear...

Maybe it was because you didn't know *how* to approach her in a supermarket, street, or whatever.

But there is an answer -

You see, the guys who've watched my Fearless First Impressions Take-Home Training Kit know the PERFECT openers for bars, coffee shops, supermarkets, streets, and elevators.

Yes, that's right.

ELEVATORS.

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There is a former NY Times best selling book called Blink.  It's a great book, a definite 'must-read'.  Until you get a chance to check it out, here is the Mason Notes version...

The key idea of Blink, is that we humans make decisions almost immediately, whether we realize it or not.

It happens at a subconscious level, and happens in the 'blink of an eye'.

By the way, this isn't just conjecture.

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You know some times I just have to state the obvious...

If you can't approach a woman and start talking with her, there is NO WAY in hell you are going to get a date with her.

And WISHING you didn't have to be the one that approaches won't get you anywhere either.

If you don't have a clue how to walk up to a woman and get her FOCUSED on you so you can 'chat her up' then you need to be one of the SMART MEN who gets a copy of Fearless First Impressions.

I say smart, since you are smart enough to realize I can't teach you how to approach in email, print, or even on the phone, no matter how much I want to.  You have to SEE how it's done to get the subtleties.

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You know, if you had told me when I was in college and came within a frogs hair of getting married (it's true), I would someday be recognized around the world as a dating expert...

I would have said you were nuts.

And the thing is, now I have to be really careful what I say when I am in front of a room full of guys at a workshop or seminar.

For example:  Last year during an Art of Attraction workshop, one of the guys asked what I thought the hardest possible pickup would be.

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This is a little embarrasing, but looking back I have to admit the Fearless First Impressions filming did NOT go as smoothly as I would have hoped

I'll never forget that day.  We had planned for a 4 hour mini workshop.  I mean, hey four hours should be plenty to demonstrate all the techniques, tactics, and secrets on how to approach and open a conversation right?

Bzzzt! Wrong answer!

We ended up going over NINE HOURS!  It was near midnight when we wrapped it all up, and everyone there was dead tired.  Exhausted.

Frazzled.

Yet...

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