How Eye Contact Works
Have you ever locked eyes with an amazing woman and had absolutely no idea what to do next?
You don't want to be creepy, and you know you don't want to get caught staring at um... the writing on her t-shirt. But, you don't want to look away either... and no matter what you decide, it often ends up feeling awkward and challenging.
If you're like TONS of men I've met and talked to, you've been in this uncomfortable situation.
It's all-too-common, and it may actually be one of the biggest opportunities that you're missing out on.
Despite what you may have heard from the gurus about pickup lines, openers, and fancy routines, most relationships in the real world start with something much more simple...
... Read more...
Know What She's Thinking BEFORE you Approach!
Have you ever wished you had a pair of magic glasses that would let you look inside a woman's mind and let you know EXACTLY what she was thinking BEFORE you even approached her?
And if you did have those magic glasses and you could actually see inside her head... do you think you'd be excited... or FRIGHTENED by what you might find?
If you answered "Excited!"... Sweet! Your male instincts are strong, and you probably realize that what most women want isn't at ALL what they show on the outside.
On the other hand... if you don't know what women are thinking... and if you're hesitating to make that move... then you may be sabotaging your approach before it even begins...
... Read more...
How to be Invincible - (For a while at least...)
I've been overwhelmed with lots of great questions on eye contact - it looks like this is a subject we really need to roll up our sleeves and delve into.
Even if you already reserved your copy of my REAL Conversations video, you'll want to read this email - it's got a few extra tips not in the program.
By the way, if you haven't yet reserved your copy for only $25, you've only got till this Friday before I take it off the shelves forever like all my other VIP ONLY content. You can reserve your copy for no money here:
Okay, on to the mailbox:
----------
Hey Lance,
Here is my question, and the context.
A few weeks ago while I walking to work, I came across this gorgeous woman coming my way and we crossed eyes briefly. And, I don't mean gorgeous like in Playboy. She was thin, a wonderful face, a peaceful face expression but best of all it was her eyes! When I see a woman like this, rarely, I just have a feeling it's the dream woman I've been looking for all my life -- I'm a sensitive man.
... Read more...
Woman BUSTS our lines (...at our own workshop)
Today, I want to tell you a story about a woman who knew EXACTLY how she wanted to be approached. And I know you'll be interested in this because it points out one of the biggest mistakes that so many men make when walking up to the girl of their dreams.
This wasn't any ordinary girl, she was one of our PickUp 101 Super Girls. If you don't know by now, the Supergirls are the beautiful women who help us out at our workshops. They come in for a few hours so that you can practice your approaches and get real feedback from real women. Many guys say that it's their favorite part of the workshop.
Anyway, this particular Super Girl happened to be helping us out for her first time. She knew what we taught and she was excited to get involved helping to make huge transformations in men's lives (women often love this kind of work even more than the men!)
So, she came in for her first time to a workshop and there she was, right away, pretending to be her normal girly self in some ordinary everyday situation while the workshop students approached her.
The guys approached her about three times before something happened. She got a funny look on her face. Almost the kind of look you get when you bite into a lemon.
She wasn't happy.
She even looked confused.
And then finally, she spoke. And all she said was... "Why are you all using these pickup lines?"
... Read more...
The Invincible Man... (This is for real!)
Let me ask you... When was the last time you really thought of approaching women as fun? ... Natural? ... How about Easy?
I spent over ten years practicing approaches on the most beautiful women I could find. I worked my butt off to become the best at this and really become a master of starting a conversation with women.
But, the truth is... not every moment of it was fun, natural and easy. Nope. I had a few low points. Well, quite a few.
But, for most of those ten years, I didn't have any help. I didn't have a teacher or a program to follow. And, I made a bunch of mistakes that you don't have to make!
When I look back on those years of learning my lessons, I can now really separate the key pieces that led to my success from the mountains of trial and error that was wasted time.
... Read more...
