How to Develop Better Body Language and More Confidence - The Dirty Little Secret of Self Confidence
What if I told you, I know a simple way for you to SKYROCKET your self-confidence, that was not only EASY, but you could do it every day...
Would you be interested?
What if I told you that you could do this easy-as-pie method ANYWHERE, anytime, and no one would know what you are doing, so it makes a NO-BRAINER to practice it every day.
Does this sound like something you could use?
What if I told you that with this method, in LESS than 4 months you would be a TOTALLY confident man, and that change on the inside of you would be so obvious on the outside, that anyone who hadn't seen you over that time would be visibly SHOCKED at the change.
Could this be useful?
Finally, what if I also told you, that by using this method, not only would women that already know you NOTICE a huge change in you, but that women you had never met would be ATTRACTED to you?
Would you like to know what it is yet?
The #1 Problem For Men:
Probably the number one concern guys have (other than getting laid), is often referred to as 'INNER GAME".
Some guys call it 'Approach Anxiety', some 'Confidence' or 'Self-Confidence', and some call it 'Fear of Rejection'. You get the idea.
And let's face it, this is a REAL issue.
In fact, you don't even have to TELL me if you have inner game issues, I can spot it a mile away.
Like I tell guys at my Introductory Seminars, I know BEFORE you ever open your mouth if you are going to successfully open a conversation with a woman.
I can tell you within THREE SECONDS of me saying "Go talk to her" if she will even give you the time of day.
And no, I'm not a mind-reader and I can't predict the future, it's as OBVIOUS to me as the nose on your face. That comes from me coaching so many guys in the field.
The Most Critical Element Of Girl-Attraction:
Women have AMAZING intuitive skills. So if I can tell you have some inner game junk going on in your head, then for a woman it's like it's being broadcast on a GIANT screen TV with the volume on FULL.
Women can INSTANTLY tell if you've got something like this going on, just like a dog can sense when you are afraid.
And though most women won't growl, bare their teeth, and try to bite you... I can PROMISE you they won't find you the LEAST bit attractive the moment they sense this lack of confidence.
They might HUMOR you as you approach and chat with you a bit, but you couldn't get a phone number out of them if you pulled up in a Ferrari.
Now get this. A woman is programmed in her genetic coding to look for that ONE MAN she is supposed to have s ex with.
Any guy with inner game issues is not going to be that man, and NOTHING you SAY or DO will trigger her attraction for you.
The Irony of Teaching PickUp
What fascinates me, is that guys come to me knowing they have inner game issues, yet the first thing they want to know is "What do I say?" or "How do I approach?"
It's like their subconscious KNOWS exactly what's most important, but the logical 'guy' brain takes over and wants a cookbook list of ingredients.
Ironic isn't it?
Listen, I definitely provide the step-by-step progression of a pickup in my workshops, including what to SAY and what to DO. I wouldn't be a good teacher if I didn't do that.
But, I also immediately start working on each guys inner game, and the really cool part is, they don't even REALIZE (at first) that this is happening.
The Dirty Little Secret Of Developing Unshakable Self-Confidence:
You see, most guys have it ALL WRONG. They try like hell to change to get more confident, to change their inner game issues from the inside.
They do affirmations.
They try self-hypnosis.
They have a three foot deep stack of self improvement books, have read everyone of them, and have another box on it's way from Amazon.
They have every Tony Robbins CD and listen to them over and over again.
Now let me be clear on this... all those thing ARE useful. Especially for building a success mindset.
But to create powerful unshakable self-confidence with women... at best it's the LONG road, and in my experience it RARELY works well.
You can't start with just what's inside.
That's a part of the 'dirty little secret' of unshakable self-confidence.
This secret is why women can sense your not the guy they should sleep with.
This dirty little secret is why I can tell within three seconds if you'll be successful when we work in the field.
And guess what? This 'dirty little secret' has been known for thousands of years in the ancient cultures, but has been all but lost to our modern society.
I'll admit, even though it's totally obvious once you know it, it took me years to figure it out on my own.
It's simple actually. Much more simple than you could ever guess.
The Way To Change Inner Game Is Start on The OUTSIDE!
You see the key is the MIND-BODY CONNECTION. Like I said, this is something ancient cultures understand. You can find it in traditional practices such as martial arts and yoga.
In a nutshell, this is how it works from the inside out... you have feelings of fear (approach anxiety, refection, etc.). As those feelings amplify it causes a DEFINATE PHYSICAL CHANGE in your body.
This change is OBVIOUS when you know what to look for.
As an example, think of how easy it is to spot when someone you know is depressed. You don't say to your self "Gee look at his body, he must be depressed", you INSTANTLY know something is wrong.
It Works Both Ways:
What you likely don't know is that this process is REVERSIBLE. That simply by changing his body posture, you can instantly have an affect on his mood. (it won't 'cure' him, but it will make him feel better or at least different)
Are you starting to understand the 'dirty little secret' yet?
I know when I finally 'got it', my success with women went through the roof!
And the way I changed my inner game, the way I gave myself unshakable self-confidence, is the EXACT same way I can show you how to do it.
How do I know this will work for you? Because I see it happen EVERY time I teach a workshop.
And the really good news is, it doesn't matter what you LOOK like, your PAST success with women, or how OLD you are.
When I teach you my specially designed self-confidence conditioning, all you have to do is PRACTICE daily and you will begin to notice a difference IMMEDIATELY.
It's Your Body Talking:
Listen, there is nothing I enjoy more than seeing my students a couple weeks after workshop, and being able to notice by their BODY LANGUAGE that their self-confidence had a massive jump up.
I can tell by the way each man enters the room, the way he walks, how he stands, and how he sits, just how much change has occurred INSIDE him.
Remember... if I can SEE it, any woman can ALSO see it, and usually WAY before I do.
There's only one problem, I could write thousands of pages on this, and you would never 'get it'.
Sure, you'll have an INTELLECTUAL understanding of the 'dirty little secret', and your logical brain will be happy knowing a new thing.
BUT, if you want to change your inner game, if you want to develop unstoppable self-confidence with women, if you want girl-attracting body language that works the INSTANT you walk in a room...
I'm not trying to be secretive here, but you wouldn't begin to understand what this is all about without SEEING it for yourself. I would just screw it up for you trying to explain in writing...
Because IT'S VISUAL!:
And this is the MOST CRITICAL part of the attraction equation.
All the opening lines, stories, banter, and cool clothing won't get you more than a few SECONDS with a woman once she realizes you are a quivering puddle of fear on the inside.
Don't get me wrong, all those other parts are important, but you have to make a powerful FIRST IMPRESSION and your BODY LANGUAGE is the single most noticeable element (to a woman) of your first impression.
If you practice everyday like I tell you, in less than a month or so, you'll find you can easily have fun conversations with anyone... especially beautiful women!
But you must PRACTICE. This is where guys drop the ball.
Look, If you've got 30 minutes a day, I guarantee to work a social skills miracle in your life.
That's all it takes, but you've got to lean in to your edge and push yourself out of your comfort zone.
If you can commit to that, I've got all the tools you need to talk with any woman you want to meet.
The best resource I can recommend is my Physical Confidence Take-Home Training Kit.
In it I show you step-by-step how to go from being self-conscious and nervous, to the playful, confident and attractive man you want to become.
You'll get all the tools you need to embody the confident habits of the 'Naturals', so you'll never need to act like some sort of cheezeball lounge lizard or act like something that you're not.
Check it out at :
http://www.PhysicalConfidence.com/
Now, go meet some women.
Your Friend,
Lance Mason
P.P.S. - If you've already have pretty strong body language but just have trouble approaching women in difficult situations, then you'll want to check out Fearless First Impressions - my program on approaching women in just about ANY situation you can imagine. Different styles of approaching are taught in a straightforward manner through demonstrations with real women. Learn more at:
http://www.PhysicalConfidence.com/
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